So easy topics to discuss. someone will laugh while reading the title. ya ya ya… everyone knows whats the true friendship and all are so much capable of understanding the concept.
the reason to include this topic is to draw the attention towards some cons and pros of friendship and to discuss how we can know that we have true friends with us or not.
Friendship is a relation that we make with friends. this is the relation we make by our choice. so if we dont know how to choose friends we may have wrong list of people in our list. so always choose the friends who motivates you, suggest you, help you and have drink together attitude. doesn’t mean that your friend should be a full time drunker hahaha..
Lets see the pros first
–> chances are very low, that you will be on wrong path in life
–> you always feel motivated and helpful
–> always feel to share without any hesitation
–> there would be no fear of privacy or personal space
–> more important, you will be enjoying the time with your friends.
–> have qualitative discussion and sharing
–> you are given space to speak and they listen to you
As there are pros, there are cons also..
–> there is only one con. that is broken of trust. other than that there is no such cons.
It happens in friendship, that your friend can betrayed you. broke your trust. whatever the reason is. but you are hurt enough because of that. generally this kind of guys/girls, break everyone’s trust. so you are not alone in that list. the thing what we can do is that, we can finish up the relation with him/her. take very much care in selecting such guy/girl in your life in future.
Life is a journey, so it is not static. its dynamic. we never knows whats the next in life. so it happens with friends also. we live together and suddenly depart. living in different areas or city. then new friends in life. again fun and happy moments. again depart. so life just go on with this situations.
we cant control over it. its life. we can only develop our self in choosing people as our friends. make sure if the person whom you are choosing is enough matured and have some ethics of life. in friendship age,color,religion,nationality does not matter as far the intentions are very real,true and good towards you.
after all what is true friendship ?
we can say that a true friendship is friendship which increases your value in terms of moral, life, reality, happiness, job, fun,money, dreams…whatever may be the case. if you feel that your friends are adding value towards any of these you have true friends otherwise you have made mistake in choosing the friends.
so remember the formula : true friendship = addition of values in your life
hope this has helped you to understand why we have included this topic to discuss in our article.
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