Wow so nice to see you here. now you are very confident and serious about your relationship.
What is Commitment? first of all, you should know about what the commitment is. its act of standing for your words. no matter whatever happens I will be reserved for my partner only. Not going to change my partner any how. whatever the circumstances are. how much delay it gets. however my partner gets effected by emotionally or physically, I will always be with him/her.
so if you feel you are enough matured to stand for your words, you told or not told, this is the perfect time to make a commitment for your relationship. if you think your partner has no personal issues or any works pending in his/her life, this time is perfect to give commitment.
Check for few points before giving commitment.
-> do your partner have anything left to finish in his/her life
-> is there anything left which needs clarification in relationship
-> are the goals of you and your partner are well aligned or not
-> is there anything that your partner needs to discuss
-> if any clarifications from your side are pending
-> check if there is any issue not cleared yet.
-> make sure there is no any family issues going on for your partner
so these were some points you have to consider before giving commitment in your relationship. then only it will work out for you.
Remember one thing, giving a commitment is not just telling your partner about your seriousness towards your relationship. but its an act of trust,no matter whatever happens you will stick to that.
so make very sure, that you want to spend your whole life with your partner then only you have to go with commitment. Also keep an eye on your partner’s mood. if he/she is upset don’t offer commitment. wait for few days and try again.
when you are offering a commitment towards your partner, understand you are just giving him/her a standard agreement from your side. you cant accept the same thing from your partner. time will come and your partner also offers the commitment to you. so when your partner accepts the offer, dont try to force him/her to behave like as he/she is your property. this behaviour is not acceptable in relationship.
Hope this will article helped you to know about commitment in relationship.
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